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unpleasant company drives you crazy, so you’ve built your life around avoiding it.

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instincts tell you to go gently. always good to listen to your body. it deserves to be heard.

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it seems he’s not allowed to make mistakes or admit that he has: can only imagine his self-talk & rationalization. very tough task he’s set for himself that means your errors are a reflection on him & have to be deflected. explains a lot, really.

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very hard to be sympathetic for people who need to feel they’re in control. even tho’ you know such behavior stems from fear.

 

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maintaining your self-esteem in that [hostile] environment takes much energy, but surrendering it’s not possible. not saying you should: just be aware of the costs.

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he suggested building an imaginary wall for self-protection & you told him about Loving Kindness’ cloak of love. he heartily endorsed the image. as do you. take good care, dear one.

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many happy memories surrounding those decorations. tenderness is a lovely, apt cue. endless patience getting small treasures ‘just so.’ let them all ground you to innate happiness.

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